&Follow SJoin OnSugar
the lies they tell

Mat who doesnt get over the EX GF. urghhhhh!!

Email |
|
By knowyourmats · January 25, 2010
0 Comments · 4 Views

Due to overwhelming request on this topic, I would like to share with you readers about Mat(s) who just can’t get over their ex girlfriend. Okay current girlfriend... do you job...

SCREAAAAAMM!!
 

Okay, this topic might be very sensitive for some of you, but some of you might want to reflect why should you be worried too much, it is called ‘ex’ anyway.
First thing first, you can do a check on your Mat.
Do note this following sign and you will for sure know that your Mat is still not over his ex girlfriend. Elehh, macam jambu sangat je tuh pompuan. Hehehe

The Mat still brings her up...regardless of how you try to divert the conversation.

  • Your Mat still have too much memories between the both of them so he just could not shut his mouth. The Mat wants to share these moments of happiness of his to make you aware that he was better off with her than you. Or when you choose to stop the conversation by opening a new topic, he will go like this ‘Eh, tukar topic Nampak? Jealous eh?” and despite just saying that freaking sentence, your mat continued the topic like suke hati ex-gf die je. Hehe.

The Mat talks negatively about her

  • For those whom your Mats always wanting to condemn the ex girlfriend, please don’t sit on the sofa to comfortably yet. This is one major factor that you might want to consider. All you will ever hear from your Mat is all the negatives facts on the ex girlfriend. Perangai macam pompuan sundal je, jangan bebual pasal de urh. Muke pecah step hot, Biar urh, tak heran urh, bekas orang geli aku. These comments might sound hurtful but maybe your Mat is actually missing the exgf badly. Aiyooooohhhh Tak taooo~

The Mat compares you to her

  • It can go two ways. It’s either he thinks that you are wayyyyyyy better than the exgf or he might compare you to the so angelic exgf. Kalau baik sangat asal exgf kan?! Nie obviously korang tau lah macam mane kan? Usually the sentence will end up like, “you nie tak macam my ex lah, tak best”. You feel me people?

The Mat says he's not over her...

  • Okay if you Mat says this sentence to you. Do TypicalMATsays a v big favour, Dump his for god sake. Thank you (:

From my very own experience, I’ve encountered these kinds of Mats quite a few times. It was like two years ago when this Mat whom I was dating cum getting into a relationship with him keeps on talking to me about his exgf.

At first he was very much reluctant to share his story with me, But after a while this Mat keep on telling me stories about his exgf. Obviously by that time, telinga aku dah naik berbulu okay!! Like hello, you are dating me and you are still thinking about her?

This Mat tells me that his mum loves his exgf a lot. Every year, time preparing for Hari Raya, she will come his house and bake cookies with his mum. (Tuh part aku dah feel threaten.) This Mat also tells me that how his exgf always never fails to pick up his phone calls unlike me. A lot of other things that just hurt the fuck out of me.

This exgf of his is working at CDC. So this Mat will repeat and repeat how he caught his exgf playing timmer with him. Blablabla. It's horrible. Mat nie macam takde life gitu lah. Exgf de kalau lawa sangat takpe lah, average looking jer.

I end up leaving that Mat. But with no good reason? Just because he can’t get over his exgf. Or should I say I wasn’t strong enough to compete and make him forget his exgf. Who cares? well, I don't.

XOXO

Tagged with: scream, jealous, gf, ex gf, mat sawan, over her

Ask the Mat to shut the mouth.

Email |
|
By knowyourmats · January 19, 2010
0 Comments · 3 Views

Name calling (?) is never appropriate in a relationship.

Of course lah kan kalau you guys call you Mat tuh baby, sayang, ayang, babylove, sugar, spice to express love is great... TypicalMATsays talking about the rude, disrespectful name calling yang kite often see in abusive relationships.

We all know name calling in a relationship is a sign of immaturity. Duuhhhh! It reminds us of time korang semua maseh anak abu abeh kacau org time recess when you didn't get things done your way. Most adults have left this silliness long ago. But not everyone!

Aside from the very immaturity of it all, it is very hurtful. One can't undo what one says. Dah bebual mane boleh liquid-liquid kan? Ingat exam? Words can hurt and name calling, often occurring during times of anger can hurt deeply. First you thought it might be a joking matter matter. But when your Mat uses it too often that might eventually hurt your feelings.

Name calling in a relationship is a reflection of the disrespect one feels for each other. So if a Mat is calling you names you know he does not respect you. (tuh name nye jantan si__)

Name calling often is a sign of a Mat needing to feel dominant and strong. That is what i truely feel. If the Mat puts you down enough he will feel better about himself. Mat with their Ego means Monster :(

If the Mat can get you to feel worthless, he will feel more powerful. The worse you feel about yourself the more he feels in control of you. You get the cycle tak?

So if your Mat start calling you pompuan sundal, eh sial, oi bodoh too frequently... maybe you should check on yourself first before doing anything. Why? If you just keep your mouth shut and not wanting to voice out. You are the one who is encouraging your Mat to call you such.

& you all do know that it is never appropriate.

XOXO