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By knowyourmats · January 25, 2010
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This topic is with truly from experience. I seriously hate this bitch ever since. She's a whore and mother of all bitches. A true friend would never ever do this to anyone of you. So if you are reading this post, please read it will you fullness interest and imagination to imagine how it is like being me.

This story happen about a year ago. I just started work in one of the government hospital. It was very mundane at first. After about a month working there a new batch of girls came in and I made friend with one of this girl named Sarah (not her real name).

Sarah was a great friend whom I should say ‘kaki-gerek’. Having to work with her is like having a very shift considered done. Appearance wise Sarah portray to have this ‘minah like look with the horrible eyebrows’.
At that present moment, I was dating this Mat named Danial (not his real name). We got to know each other through Tagged and he started to contact each other and started dating. Our first outing was to Marina Square, feeling kau ingat balik! We dated for a few months before things started to turn sour.

One very fine day, Danial and I went clubbing when Sarah decided to tag along with us. I wasn’t even minding this matter. When we were on the dance floor, I swear to god that Sarah was all over Danial and it really pissed the shit out of me.

When I came to work the next day, I told a friend of mine what I was feeling about Sarah at the particular moment. So my friend told me, “pegilah cakap ngan de. It’s for your own good” – and so I did. I remembered vividly that she told me this sentence which ended up she turned her back against her very own words. “Please lah girl, Aku tak date budak police, NS lagi.”

So, I choose to trust her. We went out for clubbing a few times. Every time that I go clubbing with Danial, Sarah will confirm flirt with him on the dance floor. And the very last moment was that we had a group outing and that is when god wants to show me a true friend she is like.

Something happened to me and Sarah took all the opportunity of it. She started spreading rumours about me being engage with someone else and still dating with Danial. Danial whom was already weaken by my lost (I did mention something happen to me right), got very close with Sarah and they end up being ‘mutual friends’.

It was about 1 month later when I found out everything. She messaged me every single day and asked me the same question – “kau masih sayangkan Danial?” A first I said ‘YES’ but after a few times she repeated that question to me, I got pissed off and told her that ‘NO, WHY ARE YOU ASKING SO MUCH. IF YOU WANT YOU CAN TAKE HIM!”

And that was when she confessed to me that she was dating Danial when something had happen to me. She said she had to tell me bcoz she respected me as a friend and already treated me as part of her family. And of course it was all bullshit!

I started bombarding her with questions such as “Kalau kau respect aku as kawan kau, Asal kau buat aku gini? Lau betol kau nak Danial, Bilang lah aku boleh kasi tapi sampai kau nk kena jatuh kan maruah aku, tuh name de tkde cara.” Tuh part, aku peh minah pon datang lah. Puki, sape tak sort siak. Perangai sundal kan?

“dah tkda jantan lain per siak, sampai kawan kau punye pon kau nak kebas? Agak-agak lah siak, kau kate nie macam kawan?” – she didn’t even reply to all those messages that I gave her.

I called her umpteen times and nope she didn’t even dare to pick them up.
“Eh pompuan, aku call jawab lah sial, jangan sampai aku gegar tempat kerja kau. Name je kening mcm minah-minah tapi kental. Orang call tk tau nak jawab. Kau jangan cabar aku. Aku dah trip nak mampos kau tau ngan kau!”

Sumpah at the moment all I wanted to do is strangle her to death. Sumbat cili padi at her mouth. And so I decided to call Danial up and asked him why did he do this to me when he knows that she’s my friend.
He said he couldn’t answer me and I hang up the phone.

I rest the case. I choose to ignore everything around me. I deleted Sarah off my Facebook and Danial off my Tagged account. I just wanna put everything behind.

A few months later, I found out that things didn’t work out between Sarah and Danial. Danial is currently dating a new girl (thank god!) and I also did found out that Sarah offered Danial pangkeng in order to make Danial trust her. Danial also thought that she was fucking good in bed and he rated him 9 out of 10. Dasar minah kan, obviously lah good on bed!

Omg, my jaw just drop. I was lucky to had met with something and god showed me what Sarah true colours was like.

And for the Mat, I am still befriending with him but nothing more as an online friend. Gosh i didn't believe i just told you readers one of my worst experience ever.

Believe it or not, i didn't forgive Sarah for what she did to me. Never will.

XOXO.

Listen to your gut not your Mat

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By knowyourmats · December 22, 2009
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When it comes to relationships, TypicalMATsays often suggest you lovely girlfriends "listen to your gut."

If you want to know if a Mat is cheating... listen to your gut.
If you want
to know if a Mat is in love with you... listen to your gut.
If you want to
know if a Mat is honest... listen to your gut.

Now, TypicalMatsays not suggesting you don't analyze, review, and process information. Not at all. What I am suggesting is that our bodies know more than we realize, and our instincts can be more reliable that our conscious minds acknowledge.

Research has shown, time and time again, that our bodies can pick up information long before our conscious mind is aware of it.

Let me be a little more clear....

Our bodies are constantly picking up all sorts of information through our senses. We are literally bombarded with thousands of bits of information that our brains do not bring to our conscious awareness. Right now, your body has a sense of your form in space; your skin is receiving information concerning textures, temperature and weight; your eyes can see much more than you need to at this particular moment; your ears are receiving sounds you are not paying attention to. All this information is entering your brain, but your brain learns to tune out that information which it does not need in your conscious awareness at this moment.

But, what we know is that the information is available and your body responds to information without your consciousness being a part of the process.

When someone is lying, even before you may "know" it consciously, your body often will show signs of stress. If someone is interested in you, your subconscious can pick up clues of which you are completely unaware. Your senses are picking up all sorts of little nuances, glances, facial expressions, and a host of other non-verbal clues and signals.

When I say, "listen to your gut", I'm suggesting that your instincts, your subconscious may be trying to give you information that will benefit you.

Here is what sometimes happens... you get a certain sense (your gut tries to tell you something), but your mind second guesses what is going on. Why? Because the information may be something you don't want to hear, your mind may not want to believe it, or your emotions do not want to face it.

So, your brain ignores, represses, denies, or doesn't listen to what your body and instincts may be telling you.

Now... while I often suggest you "listen to your gut", I'm NOT suggesting you go overboard and stop thinking or go with every little quirky thought that crosses your mind. Please take note! I'm suggesting you listen to your instincts and take in what your body may be telling you. "Listen to your gut," doesn't mean be stupid!

XOXO